LESSONS LEarned

Joel Brashear

Appalachian Storyteller

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Lessons Learned

This is not a blog on self-help or how to be a better person. I am woefully underqualfied to write that. I have been fortunate enough to be around some very smart folks in my time, and I’ve messed up enough to have learned what not to do in certain situations. And, since I want to make sure I have this in some format that my kids and their kids will have access too, I thought I’d start putting it here.

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Share The Credit. Take the Blame.

While in school, I hated group work. All the way through college, every time a teacher or professor would assign a team assignment, I would cringe.

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Surround yourself with great people.

Alone, a person may have a bad idea or decide to do something dangerous. And that would hurt the one. But, if they are in a group of similar individuals, he/she can suggest it becomes something they do together and bring down the whole. But the inverse is true as well.

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Learn to Cook. And Do your own dishes!

Cooking is one of the most important skills anyone can have. Being able to take some simple ingredients and turn them into something delicious for the people you care about is special.

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Write down your goals and revise them often

Putting pen to paper is powerful. It’s permanent, for one. It literally makes a statement. And when you go from having an inkling of a dream in your mind to a concrete goal that you’ve written down on paper, it becomes real.

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Roll with the punches

Trust in your instincts and abilities to handle any situation and push on through. Because you never know what the next turn in the path will bring.

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Confidence really is key.

Believing that you can do something is almost as important and putting in the hours of training to make yourself great.

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Ask for help when you need it. 

There will be moments when you fall. This is not an indication of weakness or inability. It is simply a fact. There will be a wall you cannot climb or a ravine too wide to jump. It takes tremendous strength of character to realize that help is needed and then seek out that aid.

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Collect memories, not possessions.

After college and before marriage and kids, I had this little window where I lived with my parents, had a decent job and few bills. I was too immature to know that I should be saving for a down payment on a house or investing for the future. No, I was busy building one of the largest collections of DVD’s in East Kentucky.

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MAKE STUFF

I am as un-crafty as you can imagine: can’t paint, can’t draw. When I had a 3D art class in college, I almost burned my hand off using an industrial strength glue gun.

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Balance your checkbook

Taking care of your finances is so important, but most of us just assume it will take care of itself.

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